What to Do With Cremation Ashes: Options and Rules
Last reviewed 2026-11-01
Short answer: You can keep ashes at home, bury them, place them in a columbarium niche, scatter them where allowed, or turn some into memorial items. Rules vary by location, and scattering at sea under the EPA general permit must occur at least three nautical miles from land.
Common options
- Keep in an urn at home, or share portions among family.
- Bury in a cemetery plot or niche, or in a family plot.
- Scatter on private land with the owner's permission, or in places where permitted.
- Memorial jewelry, glass art, or a living memorial such as a tree.
Rules to check
Public land and parks often require permission. Burial at sea under the EPA general permit is at least three nautical miles from land with a report to EPA afterwards. When flying, the TSA requires a container that can pass through X-ray screening.
Frequently asked questions
Can I scatter ashes anywhere?
Not always. Private land needs the owner's permission and public land often has rules. Check local rules first.
Can I fly with ashes?
Yes, if the container can pass through X-ray screening. Check TSA guidance before travel.